matrix: use goolm over libolm, ci: user smaller docker image base

removes one dependency. jfa-go-build-docker has been updated to reflect
this, and in general with a newer debian version and properly included
goreleaser, and a build for amd64. Dockerfiles now use a
"distroless"-style container as their base. Was gonna use
chainguard/glibc-dynamic, but it running as a different user meant it
wouldn't read/write from your /data mount without manual intervention.

go.mod

@@ -43,11 +43,11 @@ require (
 	github.com/hrfee/jfa-go/logmessages v0.0.0-20251123165523-7c9f91711460
 	github.com/hrfee/jfa-go/ombi v0.0.0-20251123165523-7c9f91711460
 	github.com/hrfee/mediabrowser v0.3.33
+	github.com/hrfee/simple-template v1.1.0
 	github.com/itchyny/timefmt-go v0.1.7
 	github.com/lithammer/shortuuid/v3 v3.0.7
 	github.com/lutischan-ferenc/systray v1.2.1
 	github.com/mailgun/mailgun-go/v4 v4.23.0
-	github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.32
 	github.com/robert-nix/ansihtml v1.0.1
 	github.com/steambap/captcha v1.4.1
 	github.com/swaggo/files v1.0.1
@@ -57,6 +57,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/xhit/go-simple-mail/v2 v2.16.0
 	gopkg.in/ini.v1 v1.67.0
 	maunium.net/go/mautrix v0.26.0
+	modernc.org/sqlite v1.40.1
 )
 
 require (
@@ -69,7 +70,6 @@ require (
 	github.com/cloudwego/base64x v0.1.6 // indirect
 	github.com/dgraph-io/ristretto/v2 v2.3.0 // indirect
 	github.com/dustin/go-humanize v1.0.1 // indirect
-	github.com/energye/systray v1.0.2 // indirect
 	github.com/gabriel-vasile/mimetype v1.4.11 // indirect
 	github.com/gin-contrib/sse v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/go-chi/chi/v5 v5.2.3 // indirect
@@ -95,7 +95,6 @@ require (
 	github.com/google/flatbuffers v25.9.23+incompatible // indirect
 	github.com/google/uuid v1.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/gorilla/websocket v1.5.3 // indirect
-	github.com/hrfee/simple-template v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/json-iterator/go v1.1.12 // indirect
 	github.com/klauspost/compress v1.18.1 // indirect
 	github.com/klauspost/cpuid/v2 v2.3.0 // indirect
@@ -104,16 +103,22 @@ require (
 	github.com/mailgun/errors v0.4.0 // indirect
 	github.com/mattn/go-colorable v0.1.14 // indirect
 	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.20 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.32 // indirect
 	github.com/modern-go/concurrent v0.0.0-20180306012644-bacd9c7ef1dd // indirect
 	github.com/modern-go/reflect2 v1.0.2 // indirect
+	github.com/ncruces/go-sqlite3 v0.30.3 // indirect
+	github.com/ncruces/go-strftime v0.1.9 // indirect
+	github.com/ncruces/julianday v1.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/pelletier/go-toml/v2 v2.2.4 // indirect
 	github.com/petermattis/goid v0.0.0-20251121121749-a11dd1a45f9a // indirect
 	github.com/quic-go/qpack v0.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/quic-go/quic-go v0.57.0 // indirect
+	github.com/remyoudompheng/bigfft v0.0.0-20230129092748-24d4a6f8daec // indirect
 	github.com/rs/zerolog v1.34.0 // indirect
 	github.com/sirupsen/logrus v1.9.3 // indirect
 	github.com/swaggo/swag v1.16.6 // indirect
 	github.com/technoweenie/multipartstreamer v1.0.1 // indirect
+	github.com/tetratelabs/wazero v1.10.1 // indirect
 	github.com/tevino/abool v0.0.0-20220530134649-2bfc934cb23c // indirect
 	github.com/tidwall/gjson v1.18.0 // indirect
 	github.com/tidwall/match v1.2.0 // indirect
@@ -140,4 +145,7 @@ require (
 	golang.org/x/text v0.31.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/tools v0.39.0 // indirect
 	google.golang.org/protobuf v1.36.10 // indirect
+	modernc.org/libc v1.66.10 // indirect
+	modernc.org/mathutil v1.7.1 // indirect
+	modernc.org/memory v1.11.0 // indirect
 )